Archive for July, 2005

Mount Saint Helens

And off we went to take Papaya on her first trip up a Mountain. We were ready to show her the love of the great outdoors, hiking and camping, oops, no camping just yet. On the drive down we stopped for lunch and Papaya learned the joy of wearing sunglasses rather than just snatching them from Dad’s face.

Our first stop was Merrill Lake just south of the Volcano where we met some fly fishers and battled bugs. We had planned for a hike along a marsh with views of the mountain but the bugs at our “rest stop” at the lake helped us to reconsider going near a marsh. The fishermen were exicted about “the hatch” which we thought at first meant the salmon hatchery had just released the salmon which made these guys sort of silly fishermen. Then one explained that this fly larve that spends the winter on the lake floor was floating to the top and hatching (ew) and this got the fish very excited to eat them since these flies were as big as butterflies (double ew). Adventure Dad and I smiled with the “of course” look as we realized these guys were not just fishing a stocked lake as we had assumed. Papaya liked the lake and the views but Dad did not want to touch her feet to the warm water, “there are bugs in there!”



We stopped at the way back to our hotel for dinner in Cougar, WA. There was only one restaurant/bar and it was interesting. The booths were all of crushed red velvet and the social variety was interesting. We sat near the cashier and overheard a conversation about a new dressing that tasted funny, “is it ranch AND honey mustard?” I was also amused that this place, the back half of which was a bar, hosted the town’s only AA meeting two nights per week. Um, if the meeting is booring just grab yourself a drink and everyone will pay attention to you?

The next morning we were up early, as is normal for parents of small babies. We got up to Johnston Ridge Observatory an hour before it opened and took the chance to take a hike along the rim trail. Papaya went into the Bijorn and down the hill we hiked. Unlike my last visit to the Mountain, there was NO wind so the hike was a bit hot but the views of the volcano were great. The “new” humpback dome was letting off steam in a slow trickle which freaked Adventure Dad out, but having seen it every night on the news for months I figured we were okay. We were.

Last we took Papaya to a lake created by the blast, Coldwater Lake. We had planned to hike the Hummoks Loop but when we arrived at the almost-empty parking lot there was a “Washington State Corrections Work Team” Van, empty, and we decided not to be the first hikers they met out on the trail. So, we went on to where there had been a river pre-blast, but now there is a lake. We walked along a boardwalk and looked at flowers and bugs and water and views of the mountain. By the time we re-loaded the car around noon Papaya was exhausted by all this and decided to fall asleep. We used the chance to get down the mountain and towards Seattle where we were scheduled to pick up friends from the airport that afternoon.

It was a great trip, not as much hiking as pre-baby, but fun nonetheless.

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Planning by Papaya Mom on November 11th, 2006
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Bill is in town by Papaya Mom on September 24th, 2006
Adventure Dad' great friend Bill is in town for the weekend and we are having a great time.

Adventure Dad, and the CNO, appreciate me. by Papaya Mom on November 20th, 2006
Today's eMail foreward from Adventure Dad (written by the Chief of Naval Operations aka.

Day 6...325 miles by Papaya Mom on March 10th, 2006
Chesterton, IN to Streetsboro, OHToday will be known as the day of our accident.

the Pacific Ocean is the place to be by Papaya Mom on June 13th, 2005
Today was an exciting one for us, Papaya went in the ocean for the first time.

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Running with Adventure Dad

Papaya is out and I’m home alone. I don’t really know what to do with
myself. Adventure Dad took her in the BOB stroller for a run. She smiled
at me as they left, excited for the bumpy ride which she now
considers fun.

I’m making dinner of course, but other than that, what am I to do? I
could shave my legs, clean the house, or who knows what else.
Instead I’m updating all my friends and family on our life.

Today was Adventure Dad’ last day of work for a few days, he got home at 1
p.m.! Tomorrow the Liberty is going in to the shop to get fixed up,
it needs 90,000 mile maintenance and to be detailed. We paid it off
today, so we’ll call this visit to the Jeep dealership a
celebration. Now if we can manage to avoid any new cars, we will be
without any debt for a bit which should be nice. Next, we move, and
then buy a house. We will then be in mortgage debt forever like most
other Americans.

On Thursday Adventure Dad has to go in for a “mandatory social” with the
commodore. Um, mandatory AND social?!?! It sort of takes the fun
out of it all and leaves us without going to Mt. St. Helens as we had
planned. Maybe we’ll switch a few things around….go to the
Mountain after we drop off the LIberty, then pick up Donna at the
airport on the way home on Wednesday night.

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Colbert is my HERO by Papaya Mom on May 1st, 2006
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Changes by Papaya Mom on March 29th, 2006
Adventure Dad sent me upstairs to enjoy some alone time.

Leavin' on a jet plane... by Papaya Mom on January 8th, 2006
It was awful.

I'm sitting in a chair by Papaya Mom on April 14th, 2006
a black leather Poang Chair, one of two with footstools I put together myself.

Am I good enough, or are we ever? by Papaya Mom on November 2nd, 2006
As Papaya's mother I feel this urgency to get things right.

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Adjustments

So he came home, and Papaya is a bit confused. It was warned against, but my heart just broke for Adventure Dad the first time she looked at him with fear and cried. I hear that other babies her age are having a slow time adjusting to their Dads too…but I guess I had just hoped….

So, they are both re-learning each other. He can no longer “play” with her by reading a book while she rolls around near him. She expects more interaction and can roll/crawl her way into a lot more trouble if no one is watching. She’s learning that he is fun and loves her, not just some stranger who keeps spending the night.

Part of me wonders what she thinks. Her internal dialouge must be funny. In the morning she nurses and when she realizes he is there she gives him a look like “dude, does my Mom know you are here?” then looks back to me with the “hey, why is he still here in our house?” look. In a few days she’ll be used to him again and get messy if he’s late or not around when she expects him to be.

We are going to work soon on getting a basic schedule…adding a bottle…then after our NY trip adding in naps in her crib and eventually transition her to the crib for the first part of the night. It should be an interesting couple of months.

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So long again by Papaya Mom on December 31st, 2005
The Holidays kept me busy, no time to post!We had a great Christmas - meals at two places; Chez Shugart and Chez Warner/Shields.

Beautiful by Papaya Mom on November 20th, 2007
Is my daughter sitting on her potty in her Ariel Mermaid Dress - so freaking cute I could almost forget potty training is a long, l o n g, l  o  n  g  , l    o     n     g process! In better news - I've got Thanksgiving, then my brother's wedding, my birthday, then Christmas and New Years coming up - and Adventure Dad is only missing one of those!.

Mommy by Papaya Mom on December 2nd, 2006
I've never before been reprimanded for my dauther's use of this name.

It has been a week! by Papaya Mom on May 16th, 2005
It has been a week since Adventure Dad left.

Time... by Papaya Mom on April 4th, 2006
On Wednesday at two minutes and three seconds after 1:00in the morning, the time and date will be 01:02:03 04/05/06.

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Adventure Dad is Home!

I went to the pier. I usually don’t go, but the weather was
beautiful and Papaya missed her Daddy!

On the bus we went, Papaya in the Bijorn and me just wondering what I
was thinking. I hate waiting, and that seems to be what the pier is
all about. Yet we went, we were on the last bus and as we drove down
the Chief of the Boat of the other crew got the call…the boat had
already arrived! Yet, when the bus got to the pier, the “brow” was
not on yet. Perfect timing, now we just needed Adventure Dad to know we
were there! He came topside to work on the brow, looked across, and
there we were!

Across the brow he came, hugged his little girl and gave me a big
hug! It was a bright and sunny day on the pier, we were all happy
and just awaiting the time to go home! After going back on the boat
for a bit, we were ready. There were of course, no busses. We ended
up walking up the pier with Mike and Darcy, being the CO he has a car
at the pier, and got a ride to our car.

Before we walked away, there was drama. We have a wife who has a
latex allergy, she touched a balloon by accident that the clown who
was there to keep the kids from jumping off the pier. She took her
epi-shot but was still in SERIOUS distress; the boat’s doc came and
gave her oxygen and an ambulance came and took her away. She was
throwing up as her throat was closing, the ambulance got there just
in time!!!!! She is an acquaintance, so I’ll send her a card hoping
that she gets well soon. That is no fun as a homecoming!

We came home, the princess slept in the carseat and we got all the
way to Outback Steakhouse before she woke up. We had a great dinner
although Papaya only wanted me to hold her. It was a bit sad, but it
was nice for Adventure Dad to get to look across and see her.

As I write, she is laying on my lap “talking.” Dad comments “she
talks a lot now, doesn’t she?” I swear she said Mama the other day,
and some of her noises sound like “dada.” She had a long day
yesterday; started with four shots and ended with her Dad coming
home. I wonder how long until things feel “normal” for her again?

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Nursing in Public, while Exercising by Papaya Mom on June 17th, 2005
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I'm inspired to menu plan these days. by Papaya Mom on October 29th, 2006
MenuWeek of October 30 through November 5Monday Steak, Pan Roasted Balsamic Onions, Salad, Sugar Snap PeasTuesday Chinese Chicken SaladWednesday Pancetta Wrapped Pork Roast, Potato and Onion Cakes, SaladThursday Submarine Cocktail Party!Friday Leftover Pork Roast, etc.

It can light up a whole day when she smiles. by Papaya Mom on June 16th, 2006
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Pictures! by Papaya Mom on January 25th, 2006
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ALLERGIES

I guess it was inevitable, she’s related to the Warners and a few Petzoldts who display the wonderful allergy-prone ways of good German blood.

I fed her oatmeal, you know that bland stuff that adults pour sugar over to make it edible? Oatmeal! Within a few hours she was flushed, then a spotted flat rash across her whole torso, then the itching set in. She tried to sleep but would make a whining noise, roll over and begin scratching through her nightgown. So tired though, she chose not to open her eyes.

So, I called my Mom. Not home. Called my Aunt the nurse. Not home. Finally galled the Dr’s office and got the 24 hour nurses at Children’s Hospital in Seattle who talked me throuh. I was told if she began any signs of breathing trouble to give her benadryl and call 911…SCARY!

So, 1% hydrocortisone cream on the chest and she was asleep in minutes, it was the middle of the night of course. By morning the rash was gone and she is happy. I’ll be talking to her Dr. on Wednesday at her six-month checkup.

From my research:
Allergy testing is useless until 2 years old, and prone to false positives after that.
Oatmeal is one of the most non-allergenic foods out there.
This MAY be a gluten allergy, I pray not.
I need to keep doing one food at a time so we can spot any other troublemakers.
I may need to keep one of those bee-sting type shots around in case she has a more serious reaction to another food.

And I’ve determined that I need to put all her medications together in a kit so I can find them in th emiddle of the night when she’s crying.

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"Solid" food by Papaya Mom on June 22nd, 2005
Papaya has begun solids, if they can be called that.

A bazzilionth cousin for Papaya by Papaya Mom on March 3rd, 2006
Nope, not that she has a lot of them, just that this new one is a lot of times removed.

Handmade Ornaments by Papaya Mom on November 26th, 2005
We made beautiful ornaments today, a new tradition.

Fish Tacos for Dinner by Papaya Mom on December 18th, 2005
Adventure Dad is so happy, he's been craving since he heard about them on NPR.

Tattoo Girl by Papaya Mom on July 23rd, 2006
We had a lot of fun with temporary tattoos today.

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Home sweet home….but missing Paradise

It is inevitable, after five weeks in Paradise at my Parents’ house I
wanted to go home. I longed for our own bed, all of Papaya’s things
and a few of my own as well. It was sad as we ate our last breakfast
at Cinnamon’s with the family and drove off to the airport, sad as I
hugged my Mom goodbye, ditto on seeing the beautiful view out the
window of the plane.

I got home and was so happy to feel my own space again. I cleaned
like a mad-woman (with the help of my fellow mad-woman Donna) and got
ready for 3rd of July in Poulsbo. I love living in a town that is a
bit irreverent, having our fireworks on the 3rd is part of it for
me. Papaya and I hosted a Barbecue with friends from as far as New
York City, Seattle and all over Kitsap County in attendance. Adventure Dad’
sea pup Mel Naidas, now the NAV on the Michigan, worked the grill
while everyone pitched in with potluck supplies. I got to meet the
husband of my high school friend Meredith, and spend time with her
for the first time in five years! After dinner we drove over to
Patty Beal’s place, parked, and walked into town for the show. Papaya
nursed through the fireworks and did not seem a bit bothered by the
noise!

So now, I’m unpacking. I’ve got my suitcases empty and the clothing
put away. All that is left are the five huge boxes we mailed home to
ourselves. I’m going through hand-me-down clothes for Papaya (thanks
again Cindy!), baby gear and the like. Luckily the BIG neighborhood
garage sale is the 16th of this month, so I can get rid of a few
things to make room for my new stuff!

I’m awaiting Adventure Dad’ return from sea, the garage sale, Patrick’s 3rd
birthday, our trip to NY this summer and the chance to clean my
bathrooms…ah, the life of a stay-at-home Mom! I’m also editing a
DVD for my Dad’s family at Lake George and working on a catalog of
Grandma Wyatt’s things….who says SAHMoms are not busy? Ha! You
should see the laundry I’ve done already!

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