What being a Mother means to me.

Okay, all that cute stuff you get in eMail forewards is true.
Yes, I feel mushy for her and my life will be forever changed.

But what else?

I feel a connection to other Moms; my own, my ancestors,
I wonder how they felt when their child was this age, etc.

I give unsolicited advice to other Moms all the time,
yes, with my [b]whole 15 months[/b] of experience.

I get to watch my husband fall in love with another girl,
and enjoy it rather than plan his untimely demise.

There are moments when all I want to do is stay in bed all day playing with her,
but there are others where leaving this house is imperative to both of our survival.

I love my body more for all it’s done and is doing for her,
but my tummy (oh who am I kidding - ALL OF ME) will never be the same.

I’ve found my gentle side,
I use my planning side to make her life as fulfillng as can be,
and I still take time for me, much more than I did in the first year.

I’ll keep thinking on this one.

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4 Responses to “What being a Mother means to me.”


  1. 1 Kayte

    Now you and Meghan can be mushy together!!!

  2. 2 Annika

    This post is so nice. I find myself talking to froggy non-stop today. It will be so amazing when s/he is a real live person for me to talk to! Soon, soon, soon.

  3. 3 Papaya Mom

    the mushiness abounds…

    and to Annika, as you know, talking to frogger now and in the first hours after birth helps he/she feel connected and safe, no matter what Tom Cruise says!

  4. 4 Big PoZer

    Hey, that “Whole 15 Months” of experience is VERY valuble to me!!

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